There is no set concept of a good child.
Why do you think so?
My answer
This is because there is no one else who explains children's minds by introducing the perspective of acting like a good child into the way children behave.
Statistics can be used to scientifically show that children act as good children, but in doing so, many people need to understand that children act as good children.
子どもの行動の仕方に、よい子を演じると言う見方を持ち込んで、子供の心を説明している人が他に居ないからです。
子どもがよい子を演じることを科学的に示すには、統計学を使うのでしょうが、その際によい子を演じると言う見方を多くの人が持って貰う必要があります。
I understand each of things is depend on individuals, depend on cultuer also in Japan.
My anser
That's right. There are differences in the way adults feel and think about children act as good children. Even so, although there are trends in what people think of as good children, it is still difficult to formulate a clear concept of what constitutes a good child. I will write about the reason at the bottom of this message.
その通りです。大人の感じ方、考え方にばらつきがあります。それでもよい子という感じ方には傾向はあっても、未だはっきりとした概念を作る難しさがあります。その理由は最後に書きます。
But what parents want children to do is the good thing for them. This fact is unchanging.
My anser
That's right.
その通りです。
Extremely good child for mother is good child every country. Is it wrong?
My answer
That's right.
その通りです。
I don't understand that suddenly only this point get to be a concrete matter.
My answer
どの母親も子供を守り、育てたいという本能を持っています。又、子どもも母親が自分を守って育ててくれるという本能を持っていますから、子どもは本能的に母親に対してよい子になろうとします。
Your research based on brain science based on ?
そうです。
My answer
That's right.
I know my brain is not capable of understanding complicated things.
My answer
Every mother has an instinct to protect and nurture her child. Children also have an instinct that their mother will protect and nurture them, so they instinctively try to be good to their mother.
脳科学から子どもを観察すると、大人の心と違う子供の心を知ることができます。
By observing children from the perspective of neuroscience, we can learn about children's minds, which are different from those of adults.
母親や子供の周囲の大人が、子供がよい子だと判断するときには、２つの場合があります。
一つは子どもが辛さから逃れるために、よい子を演じる場合。
二つは子どもが何かに挑戦している姿の場合
です。この二つの場合を区別するのは、一般に難しいです。
There are two cases when a mother or the adults around the child decide that the child is a good child.
One is when a child pretends to be a good child in order to escape from hardship from something.
The second is when the child is taking on a challenge which is very important but difficult for the child.
It is generally difficult to distinguish between these two cases.
